The Forever Family’s Legal Loophole: A 50-State Survey on Adoption Dissolution

Introduction

Adoption is said to be “forever”—longing parents fulfill their dream of parenthood and children get a “forever family.” While the legal system intends for adoptive parent-child relationships to be permanent, a happily-ever-after ending is elusive when adoptions are enabled to fail. In the United States, each state can set its own standard for when courts may grant a request to dissolve an adoption, as well as time limits within which a parent may ask the court to vacate the adoption decree. This legal loophole, known as adoption dissolution, has been met with controversy about the permissibility of parents giving up on their adopted child, especially as states do not provide this additional avenue of termination to biological parents. Nonetheless, the fact remains that, sometimes, dissolution could be in the child’s best interests.

This Note surveys how each state approaches adoption dissolution in order to uncover regulatory trends across the country. It finds that while adoption statutory schemes generally seek to effect permanence, many states retain dissolution statutes that vary as to the substantive and procedural ways to terminate the adoptive relationship. As such, this Note proposes a more uniform statutory scheme reframed around the well-being of the child rather than the needs or desires of the adult or the judicial nature of the adoptive relationship. When it comes to the legal procedures surrounding a child, the “best interests” standard should prevail, regardless of the adoptive or biological nature of the parent-child relationship.


* Associate Editor, Cardozo Law Review (Vol. 46); J.D. Candidate, Benjamin N. Cardozo School of Law (2025); B.S., Boston University (2019). I would like to thank Professor Edward Stein for his thoughtful guidance in serving as my faculty advisor on this Note. I am also grateful to my colleagues on Cardozo Law Review for their diligence and meticulous edits. Finally, I would like to recognize my mother, who adopted me when I was just seven months old: you have supported me in all of my dreams and embodied what a true “forever family” is for us. Thank you will never be enough.